Paul Glen: How to deal with a toxic team
Five warning signs can warn you that your project team has turned toxic.
Five warning signs can warn you that your project team has turned toxic.
Geeks are often told that they are annoyingly literal, which they find confusing and unfair. But their colleagues have another way of listening.
There are no metrics for measuring the quality of your relationships. For metrics-loving geeks, that's a problem.
Your future success in the IT industry depends on embracing one simple, but hard-to-accept idea: There are no more jobs. I don't mean that there's no more work to do. Of course there is. Nor do I mean that you won't get hired to do things. Of course you will.
To a lot of people, it seems as if we geeks are always battling for supremacy in the Always-Need-to-Be-Right Club.
We in IT have a decision to make: Do we want to be powerful, or do we want to be influential?
The first step is to expand what, for those in IT, is a limited understanding of what influence is.
We geeks must transform our eagerness to please users into eagerness to help. There's a big difference.
You can tell a lot about what matters in a community from the vantage point of a small plane. That's figuratively true of all organizations.
Geeks are devoted to Truth, with a capital T. The question 'When will it be done?' feels like a request to lie. Insider; registration required)
We techies need to take the edge off once in a while.
Every IT person has had one of these situations. A user comes to you with a problem. You fix it and announce, "Problem solved" or "Case closed." But you're met with a long, uncomfortable silence or a blank stare. It's an awkward moment that you can end only by
New managers struggle. They also don't get much help -- or sympathy. My last column elicited a lot of heartfelt reader emails about the difficulty of, and lack of support for, the transition from technical work to management. My conversations with those
Whenever I hear a technical person say, "I just got promoted into management," I know he's in for a rough ride. Because chances are he doesn't understand what he's gotten himself into, and whoever gave him the job hasn't prepared him well. Very rarely do they realize that in technical work, this new role isn't a promotion -- it's a career change.
In my exploration of the differences between technical and business people, nothing surprised me more than this: Business people tend to think that we don't care about anything. One of their biggest complaints is that we don't share their passion for the business. When-ever I hear this, I have an immediate, visceral reaction of outrage: "How could you possibly think I don't care about anything? I work like a dog to try to turn your visions into reality!"